Thank you, Martin. This resonates with me.
I've heard that perception is partly shaped by anticipation in the brain. With smell, for example, there's research showing that if you present lemon-scented material while telling someone it's yuzu (a Japanese citrus), they perceive yuzu. The brain leads, not the nose.
If that's the case, the gap between makers and players may not arise from language alone, but from the brain actively constructing different perceptions from the same sensation.